{"id":54954,"date":"2020-02-14T08:40:23","date_gmt":"2020-02-14T13:40:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/mileniostadium.com\/?p=54954"},"modified":"2020-02-14T08:40:23","modified_gmt":"2020-02-14T13:40:23","slug":"o-meu-valentim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mileniostadium.com\/editorial\/o-meu-valentim\/","title":{"rendered":"O meu Valentim"},"content":{"rendered":"

Com o Dia dos Namorados e o Dia da Fam\u00edlia a chegar, de repente a maior parte da sociedade percebe que amor e fam\u00edlia t\u00eam um significado especial e devem ser celebrados. A quest\u00e3o que se coloca \u00e9 porque \u00e9 que s\u00f3 nos lembramos de dias especiais quando o mundo do marketing nos diz? Para onde foi o conceito de fam\u00edlia e\/ou amor? Encontramos desculpas e motivos \u00e0 medida que nos distanciamos cada vez mais daqueles por quem nos dever\u00edamos preocupar. O conceito de fam\u00edlia acabou e j\u00e1 n\u00e3o existe amor? Parece que, com o desenvolvimento do mundo, a separa\u00e7\u00e3o f\u00edsica de fam\u00edlias, amigos e namorados, aumentou e a sociedade tornou-se menos afetuosa e mais egoc\u00eantrica. <\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

V<\/span>im de uma fam\u00edlia grande, com os meus av\u00f3s a terem, cada um, nove filhos, dos quais muitas crian\u00e7as nasceram. Hoje, existe pouca comunica\u00e7\u00e3o a n\u00e3o ser com os meus irm\u00e3os e com a minha irm\u00e3. O que aconteceu a todos os meus tios, tias e primos? Porque \u00e9 que n\u00e3o os conhe\u00e7o t\u00e3o bem quanto devia? Sim, uma vez imposta a realidade da imigra\u00e7\u00e3o, j\u00e1 que est\u00e3o espalhados pelo mundo…, mas n\u00e3o comunicamos nem pelas redes sociais. A realidade \u00e9 que a perda de identidade familiar conduz a um paradigma onde o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o finge que \u00e9s mais importante e que n\u00e3o precisas de mais ningu\u00e9m. Muitas estruturas familiares s\u00e3o quebradas com guerras familiares, falta de amor e de respeito, devido a situa\u00e7\u00f5es provocadas por pensamento fraco, inveja e gan\u00e2ncia. A perda de uma liga\u00e7\u00e3o familiar deve ser tratada como a perda de uma parte de n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios, contudo muitas vezes parece-se com o pre\u00e7o a pagar pela estupidez do outro e n\u00e3o da tua. A perda da fam\u00edlia \u00e9 um fardo pesado que nunca desaparece. As pessoas dizem que o tempo cura, mas a profundidade da les\u00e3o \u00e9 t\u00e3o grande que apenas a morte cura o sofrimento. Um dia, algu\u00e9m disse \u201cEu sabia que um dia ia ser um homem desamparado, julgado por pecadores que matam tudo o que constru\u00ed.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

O Dia dos Namorados tem como tema o amor e cora\u00e7\u00f5es partidos fazem parte da vida porque algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o cumpriu as expectativas. A tua singularidade deveria ser expressa atrav\u00e9s daquilo que d\u00e1s e n\u00e3o necessariamente daquilo que esperas. Muitos esperam e exigem amor como uma condi\u00e7\u00e3o para viver com o outro e da\u00ed a falsidade de campanhas para preencherem os nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es e mentes com mensagens carinhosas, que apenas v\u00e3o durar at\u00e9 ao momento em que a realidade se instala. <\/span><\/p>\n

O Dia dos Namorados e o Dia da Fam\u00edlia apresentam oportunidades incr\u00edveis para um novo pensamento e para o recome\u00e7o. Todos os dias devem ser praticados sentimentos duradouros para com aqueles que amamos, nem que seja por uma quest\u00e3o de respeito. A celebra\u00e7\u00e3o deve ser feita com o planeamento do futuro e n\u00e3o com o aroma tempor\u00e1rio a flores ou o sabor de um peda\u00e7o de chocolate. Somos muito mais que isso. Aqueles que n\u00e3o t\u00eam cora\u00e7\u00e3o deveriam ser ajudados, em vez de serem descartados. <\/span><\/p>\n

O amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 um climax org\u00e1smico ocasional que oferece a oportunidade de confessarmos a algu\u00e9m que s\u00e3o uma pe\u00e7a importante da nossa vida. Amor \u00e9 respeito e todas as outras banalidades n\u00e3o importam. <\/span><\/p>\n

Amor \u00e9 a amizade daqueles com que te preocupas. Verdadeiros amigos s\u00e3o aqueles que n\u00e3o julgam e compreendem a complexidade dos teus pensamentos. O fingidor faz promessas que nunca s\u00e3o cumpridas e \u00e9 mais perigoso do que o pior dos teus inimigos. Ele esgota a tua energia, e assim a tua fonte de vida. <\/span><\/p>\n

O amor incondicional n\u00e3o existe, uma vez que tudo na vida tem condi\u00e7\u00f5es, e aqueles que esperam por ele deveriam levantar o v\u00e9u da obscuridade que envolve as suas vidas. <\/span><\/p>\n

Ama para seres amado. Feliz Dia da Fam\u00edlia e dos Namorados.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

in english<\/h6>\n

By My Valentine<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n

As we approach Family and Valentine\u2019s Day, most of society suddenly realize that love and family has a special meaning and should be celebrated. The question becomes why we are only reminded of special days when the world of marketing says we should. Where has the concept of love and\/or family goes? As we distance ourselves more and more from those, we should care for we find excuses as to reasons why. Is the concept of family finished and does love exist? It would appear that as the world evolves, spacial separation of families, friends and lovers increases, and society becomes less caring and more self-centered. <\/b><\/p>\n

O<\/span>n a familial level, my background comprises a large family starting with grandparents with 9 children each from whom many children were born. Today there is little communication with anyone other than my brothers and sister. What happened to all my uncles, aunts and cousins? Why don\u2019t I know them as I should? Yes, they are scattered throughout the world as the reality of immigration dictates but even if only by way of social media we don\u2019t communicate. The reality is that a loss of family identity propels you to a paradigm where your heart pretends that you are most important, and you don\u2019t need anyone else. Family wars and the absence of love and respect breaks many family structures due to situations to created by small thinking, greed and jealousies. The loss of a family connection should be treated as a loss of pieces of ourselves, but it\u2019s often looked at as another price to pay for someone else\u2019s stupidity, not ours. The loss of my family weighs heavily and the burden will never go away. People say that time heals but the depth of the injury is such that only death will cure the suffering. Someone once said \u201cI knew that someday I\u2019d be a helpless man, judged by sinners killing all that was build.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

Valentine\u2019s Day is about love and broken hearts and are part of life because someone else didn\u2019t meet your expectations. The uniqueness of whom you are should be expressed by giving nd not necessarily expecting. Many demand and expect love as a condition of living with another and thus the fakeness of campaigns to fill our hearts and minds with cute messages that will only last until reality sets in. <\/span><\/p>\n

Valentine\u2019s Day and Family Day as words present incredible opportunities for fresh thought and renewal. Lasting feelings for those we care should be practiced every day, if only as a matter of respect. The celebrations should be done by way of planning a future and not a temporary scent of a flower or the taste of a morceau of chocolate. We are much more than that. Those with no heart should be helped to see the light instead of being discarded. <\/span><\/p>\n

Love is not an occasional orgasmic climax that provides an opportunity to suggest to someone they are an important vessel in their life. Love is respect and all other platitudes don\u2019t really matter. <\/span><\/p>\n

Unconditional love does not exist as everything in life has conditions and those who expect it should lift the veil of the obscurity which envelopes their lives. <\/span><\/p>\n

Love to be loved. Happy Family and Valentine\u2019s Day. <\/span><\/p>\n

Manuel DaCosta\/MS<\/span><\/p>\n

Stella Jurgen<\/a><\/div>\n
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